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Here's the deal. Life is hard. I respect people who deal with their shit straight up with a minimum of nonsense. Not that nonsense isn't wonderful. It should be a big part of almost every day, but the nonsense should be just that--nonsense--silliness, giddiness, slaphaphapfuckinhapiness! What gets on my tits, though, is when people deal with their serious shit in a nonsensical way. Life is serious business. Your obligations to others mean something. Your obligations to yourself mean something. They are not window dressing. They are not background. They are it. The way you fulfill them is your life. And when you fail, you fail. You fail yourself and you fail us all. It's not a game or a story, no matter how many pills, powders, or potions you ingest or invent to make it seem otherwise. So this is a message from me to you, on behalf of the rest of the world that is actually NOT revolving around you, to wake the fuck up and deal with your hard fucking messy exhausting life like a grownup!!!!
Consider this a general message with specific intent. If you think it applies to you, it probably does.
And to those of you who do manage to crawl through the tough places every day, and find joy enough to weave into the universe in spite of the hardness of it, I salute you...I love you and I am honored to know you. You know who you are and so do we all.
Whew. I feel better now. Thanks.
Consider this a general message with specific intent. If you think it applies to you, it probably does.
And to those of you who do manage to crawl through the tough places every day, and find joy enough to weave into the universe in spite of the hardness of it, I salute you...I love you and I am honored to know you. You know who you are and so do we all.
Whew. I feel better now. Thanks.
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Lian suggested we plan a "Take Over Donna's New House" night/weekend. I think it's a splendid idea.
Also, your use of "what gets on my tits" is wonderful. I may steal it.
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And yeah, you're right on all levels. I get in the "Woe is me" mode occasionally and it takes a bit to get out of it but I do try. I try not to burden anyone else with it. I try, try, try to suck it up instead.
That said ... YOU'RE TOTALLY GETTING MARRIED SOON!
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And yes!!! I CANNOT WAIT!!!!